My husband is very supportive and encouraging of my going to school. He tells me of how proud he is of me studying for my masters. He listens and knows the right question to ask and tries to understand my every emotion. He works all day at his job and still comes back home to help me with the kids and household chores. He tries his best to finish the chores so I can take care of my home work. I don't know what I would have done if I hard married someone else. My husband's support in my life is very glaring to me and I appreciate that help and support. My husband and children keep me energized and helps my stressful behavior not to wonder away all the time.
The challenge that I imagine is stroke because people suffering from this disease have many face communication challenges, so as a result they would not be able to speak. Some of these people have difficulty understanding words spoken by other people. Their ability to read, write and solve some math problems will be difficult to determine. I can imagine this happening to me, that would make me feel frustrated and aggressive because I would not be able to do things that I once was able to do. Whether we like it or not,when things are not really well with someone people tend to isolate themselves or keep their distance from the person. I know that my family will never abandon or disregard me or my feelings.
Your post was really nice Chika. The support system you have is very rare in some places. I am glad that you are able to complete your master with the love and support of your husband.
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ReplyDeleteIt's wonderful to hear that your husband is not only supportive of your dreams but he is willing to help with the workload around the house.
I agree that many people that have strokes become isolated from their families because they don't have the skills to care for their loved one. And in some sad cases, they don't make the time to "deal with it."