This week we have been discussing about
team work and the ones we have been involved with as a leader or a follower. We
as educators need to work in groups as we partner with families, communities
and others around us. As a daughter when I came to America to stay with my dad and
step mother, I had to say goodbye to my mother, sisters, cousins and other
family members that I have grown to love and share some connections. It was
difficult on both sides because we all felt that if it were possible we would
have loved to travel together.
The closing ritual I
wish to experience is seeing my father alive again, beaming with smiles and
happy that I finally graduated and got my masters degree. He used to remind and
challenge his children that whatever others can do we can do better. He finds a
way to motivate us any chance he got so that we can aim higher.
It is important to
have closure when working with any team or in a relationship because when a
relationship is over or when a task is accomplished, you would like to know why
it ended and ask yourself if you achieved your desired goal.
I appreciate my
colleagues for helping me understand that we are all unique individuals with
different cultures, backgrounds, developments and goals. So adjourning will not
be difficult because it is the time to reflect on what we know about each other
from our discussions and blogs. It is important in a team to recognize our
achievements, failures, relationships we have formed and goals we have
accomplished, all these are important when a team is departing. In the adjourning
stage the teams are coming to an end and the team members are moving off into
different directions (Abudi, 2010).
Reference
Abudi, G. (2010). The
Five Stages of Team Development: A Case Study. Retrieved from
http:www.projectsmart.co.uk/the-five-stages-of-team-development-a-case-study.html
I agree with you closure is very important! I like the way you spoke about closure! Great post!
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ReplyDeleteYou experienced closure with the closest relationships we form in life - family. I am sorry for the many losses you have experienced. Your posting helped me realize the importance of closure to enable us to "move off into different directions". Closure helps us open new doors.
Joey
I appreciate your comment about the diversity of the group all unique individuals from different cultures, styles and beliefs. Great post.
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